The World's Authority on Dating and Relationships
We Teach Men to Be Confident and Women to Be Selective. We Teach Business People to Be Powerful Leaders and Athletes to Be The Best. We Teach Students to Be Popular. We Teach You The Art of Charm.
Training
The Art of Charm is a team of highly trained dating coaches and social dynamics instructors, with an emphasis on being successful in business and life. We will teach you everything you need to know to master social interactions in all areas of your life. The classes and in field work you'll be attending are professionally organized and personally catered to target easy application and retention of the knowledge you'll gain. Learn from the very best — learn from The Art Of Charm.
| Program | Tuition | |
|---|---|---|
| Introduction to The Art of Charm: Learn the Power to Be Selective Seminar |
FREE | Program Information |
| Get Her Number Seminar | Program Information | |
| One Classroom Session Of Your Choice | $497 | Program Information |
| One Day or Night In-Field Session Of Your Choice | $497 | Program Information |
| Three Day Advanced Attraction Arts Boot Camp — Classroom Only | $997 | Program Information |
| Three Day Advanced Attraction Arts Boot Camp — Field Night Only | $997 | Program Information |
| Three Day Social Dynamics Success Principles Program | $1997 | Program Information |
| Three Day Advanced Attraction Arts Boot Camp | $1997 | Program Information |
| One Week Attraction and Rapport Live In Program | $3497 | Program Information |
| One Week Advanced Rapport and Seduction Live In Program | $3497 | Program Information |
| One Month Attraction and Rapport Locals Program | $3497 | Program Information |
| One Month Advanced Rapport and Seduction Locals Program | $3497 | Program Information |
| The Art of Charm Charismatic Lifestyle Program | $4997 | Program Information |
Training Hours | Classroom Curriculum | In-Field Curriculum | Program Preparation | Tax Deduction
Want to learn how to create attraction, build a strong connection, and sharpen your ability to attract and keep the women of your dreams? Sign up for our Advanced Attraction Arts Boot Camp and gain specialized knowledge in all of these areas and many more. With The Art of Charm New York City Headquarters our executive coaches are available to teach you to reach a new level of understanding the nuances of social interaction. Don't like to travel? Check our World Tour Schedule for when we are in your area!
Over 35 Total Hours of Training
15 Classroom Hours
In the classroom our expert Dating Coaches will teach the sciences that drive all person-to-person interaction. We strive to answer these three questions: Who Am I? Who Are You? How Do I Show You Who I Am? You’ll learn why you feel the way you do and what drives you to take action, how to recognize subtle communication and insecurities in others, and how to do the right thing at the right time to get the perfect results you want, ALWAYS.
10 In Field Hours
When you go ‘In-Field’ with our instructors you’ll learn exactly how to break down interactions, see many demonstrations of the topics covered in the classroom, and master interaction on your own with the precise critique of a professional by your side. We’ll be going to bars, clubs, cafes, parks and many more locations to give you the power to create a connection with anyone, anywhere.
8 Q&A Hours
During the Q&A you’ll have the opportunity to have any in depth questions on the curriculum answered in detail by our instructors. We have 100% customer satisfaction and we take your questions very seriously. Get those confusing moments in your past cleared up once and for all during our Q&A.
2 Review Hours
During the review your instructors will drill you on the lessons learned from the curriculum and make sure you take home the key points necessary to give you the results you need.
Training Hours | Classroom Curriculum | In-Field Curriculum | Program Preparation | Tax Deduction
With our most popular program, you are invited to come live the charismatic lifestyle with all of the executive coaches at The Art of Charm New York City Headquarters. During this intense week-long program you will gain an extensive knowledge of our curriculum while living and breathing every aspect our teachings have to offer.
Over 60 Total Hours of Training
25 Classroom Hours
In the classroom our expert Dating Coaches will teach the sciences that drive all person-to-person interaction. We strive to answer these three questions: Who Am I? Who Are You? How Do I Show You Who I Am? You’ll learn why you feel the way you do and what drives you to take action, how to recognize subtle communication and insecurities in others, and how to do the right thing at the right time to get the perfect results you want, ALWAYS.
20 In Field Hours
When you go ‘In-Field’ with our instructors you’ll learn exactly how to break down interactions, see many demonstrations of the topics covered in the classroom, and master interaction on your own with the precise critique of a professional by your side. We’ll be going to bars, clubs, cafes, parks and many more locations to give you the power to create a connection with anyone, anywhere.
15 Q&A Hours
With Q&A throughout the week you’ll have the opportunity to have any in depth questions on the curriculum answered in detail by our instructors. We have 100% customer satisfaction and we take your questions very seriously. Get those confusing moments in your past cleared up once and for all during our Q&A.
Review
During the review your instructors will drill you on the lessons learned from the curriculum and make sure you take home the key points necessary to give you the results you need.
Training Hours | Classroom Curriculum | In-Field Curriculum | Program Preparation | Tax Deduction
Local to the New York City area? Join us for our extended locals program, which consists of a full month of classes and fieldwork. The benefit of this program doesn’t stop there! As a member of the locals program you will have a close-knit group of individuals practicing our teachings on a daily basis right in your area.
Over 60 Total Hours of Training
25 Classroom Hours
In the classroom our expert Dating Coaches will teach the sciences that drive all person-to-person interaction. We strive to answer these three questions: Who Am I? Who Are You? How Do I Show You Who I Am? You’ll learn why you feel the way you do and what drives you to take action, how to recognize subtle communication and insecurities in others, and how to do the right thing at the right time to get the perfect results you want, ALWAYS.
20 In Field Hours
When you go ‘In-Field’ with our instructors you’ll learn exactly how to break down interactions, see many demonstrations of the topics covered in the classroom, and master interaction on your own with the precise critique of a professional by your side. We’ll be going to bars, clubs, cafes, parks and many more locations to give you the power to create a connection with anyone, anywhere.
15 Q&A Hours
With Q&A throughout the week you’ll have the opportunity to have any in depth questions on the curriculum answered in detail by our instructors. We have 100% customer satisfaction and we take your questions very seriously. Get those confusing moments in your past cleared up once and for all during our Q&A.
Review
During the review your instructors will drill you on the lessons learned from the curriculum and make sure you take home the key points necessary to give you the results you need.
Program Preparation | Tax Deduction
At any given moment, somewhere in the world, a woman feels helpless because she’s attracting the wrong kind of men into her life. At the same time, there are men who feel lost and hope they “get lucky” enough to connect with a girl that they actually desire. Well, there’s no luck involved in success with the opposite sex. There is a system to social interaction and if you don’t know it, the world will have no pity on you.
In this FREE seminar you’ll get a window into that system and you’ll take away invaluable knowledge to which most people simply don’t have access. The only thing you have to lose with this FREE seminar is that feeling of helplessness when a relationship spins out of control. We guarantee that this seminar will change your life forever. Come learn the science behind your interactions and learn the power to be selective.
Classroom Curriculum | In-Field Curriculum | Program Preparation | Tax Deduction
- Includes a Three-Day Advanced Attraction Arts Boot Camp
- Includes a One-Week Advanced Rapport and Seduction Live-In Program
- Access To All Advanced Attraction Arts Boot Camps For One Year
With our Charismatic Lifestyle Package, we practice what we preach. Since it is our goal that each and every one of you have a life changing experience, we are giving you the opportunity to not only invest in our programs at our special discounted package price, but you also will be allowed to attend any, and as many Advanced Attraction Arts boot camps as you like for an entire year. When you have made this much of an investment in yourself, we feel it is only fair to make sure that you have not only internalized our entire curriculum, but that you are able fully apply all of our teachings as well.
Imagine this, you walk into a bookstore in the middle of the afternoon and you see the most beautiful woman that you’ve ever laid eyes on. It’s love at first sight. You walk up to her slowly and nervously ask her what she’s reading. What you don’t know is that you’ve already told her that you think she’s too good for you before you’ve even said ‘hello’. You’re always saying something with your body language and women are naturally better at reading it than you are. People can read your mind and body. So, learn how to control what you're communicating and thus what they hear.
In this seminar, you’ll learn exactly how to master those crucial moments when you first meet a woman and we’ll show you how succeed where most guys fail. You’ll learn to have the right things coming out of your mouth and communicate effectively through your body to show her that you are the kind of man that she would like to get to know better. From the first impression to getting her number, to setting up a date, come master attraction secrets that only the most successful men on the planet are aware of.
Classroom Curriculum
Personal Assessment
During our Assessment you’ll be placed on a scale through an extensive series of questions. Your results will allow us to streamline your curriculum and make sure we aren’t covering topics that you have already mastered. This is a key component in the customizing of our curriculum and is mandatory.
Personal Social Comfort Exercise
During this exercise your Coaches will take you through your past and walk you through any insecurities you may have about story telling and reliving your experiences. As a result of this exercise, your level of comfort in general social situations will be increased significantly.
Success Principles
The same skill set that is used to master social interaction and dating is exercised to master success. This Dale Carnegie-style class offers extremely valuable lifestyle exercises and information that is held in the highest regard by many of the most successful people in the world.
Secrets Of Happiness
Ever feel like you don’t deserve the best relationship, job, respect, or friends? Our Secrets Of Happiness class teaches you the Laws Of Attraction in a way that you’ve never thought possible. Once you are implementing the techniques we teach during this class, you’ll gain better control over your unconscious mind and your emotions. You’ll experience results immediately and you’ll Never Feel Powerless Again.
The Road Map To Seduction
Success with women seem hit or miss? Feel like sometimes you get lost in the interaction and lose attraction for no reason? This class will give you the Map you need to track your place during any interaction and the direction to get it where you want to go. Want to attract and date the girl of your dreams? Attracting the wrong type of person over and over? The information in this class will give you the power to take any interaction in the direction you want.
Destroying Fear Of Approaching
The fear of meeting new people or striking up a conversation with a beautiful woman is very common. In this class, you’ll learn the causes of this fear and exactly how to overcome it. You can destroy that fear forever and live a lifestyle where being afraid to approach the most beautiful women is simply Outside of your Reality.
Creating Attraction With Words
In the beginning of an interaction the goal is comfort. Showing interest without showing neediness can sometimes seem a bit tricky. This class teaches you to use banter-style conversation to create attraction and comfort with women. Show her that you can be playful and fun and you’ll avoid hearing ‘let’s just be friends’ from the beginning.
Creating Comfort With Body Language
Ever have a ‘gut feeling’ about someone that you couldn’t explain? Our unconscious minds register body language first and create these feelings and first-impressions. In this class you’ll learn to ‘speak’ body language and control the gut feeling that you create in others.
How To Approach Anyone
You’ve gotten over the fear of approaching women with our class on Destroying the Fear of Approaching, now you’ll be practicing what you’ve learned. From correct body position to holding the attention of an entire group, you’ll learn exactly what to do and, more importantly, exactly what not to do when approaching a woman that you’ve never met. You never get a second chance to make a first impression… we’ll teach you to get it right.
How To Know When She's Interested
It’s no secret that men and women have different ways of showing that they are interested in each other. In this class, your Instructors will teach you how to read the proper signals from women. This class paired with our Body Language classes will give you complete knowledge of the ‘sub-communication’ that goes on during normal interaction. You’ll learn to answer correctly the questions women never seem to ask outright.
Make Her Chase You With Body Language
The chase is important for women as well as men. Our desires are very plastic. If we see a bowl of green candy with one red piece, we desire the red piece. This class will teach you to be that red piece of candy. You’ll learn how to make people want to be around you and enjoy the chase knowing that it’s your choice to push the interaction beyond flirtation.
Techniques For Creating Attraction
Want to end those awkward silences in conversations? This class will teach you a series of conversational techniques that will fill the silence and keep the interest-level high while the conversation continues its natural flow. Your Instructors will also teach you to create comfortable silence with someone you’ve just met.
Creating Your Charisma
You’ve seen that charismatic man that everyone seems to like. We break down the essence of charisma and help you build your own. You’ll practice how to handle people of all archetypes, you’ll create your own personal confidence and value, and learn exactly what makes a person charismatic.
Exactly What NOT To Do
Attraction is nearly instant but fleeting. One unattractive word, movement, or uncalibrated act will have you scrambling to hold it all together. In this lesson your instructors will explain a list of ‘tells’ that can make you seem unattractive. After this class you’ll find it easy to hold the attraction you’ve created and continue through the stages of interaction.
Walking, Talking, And Speaking With Confidence
The first gauge for attraction is almost always visual. If you see someone walking, you may feel attracted to them before ever meeting them. In this class your instructors will teach you attraction during your daily tasks. After this class your eye contact, your walk, posture, sitting position, and vocal tonality will all change. You’ll learn to project confidence in everything you do.
Increasing Attraction With Touch
Ever found it difficult to go for the kiss on a first date? Proper touch during an interaction will allow for natural intimacy. But make no mistake, there is a system and in this class you’ll learn just that. Your instructors will teach you this system and walk you through the process step-by-step. After this class you’ll be confident in the comfort level of your touch and recognize subtle signals that go overlooked by most.
Style And Image Consultation
Defining yourself as an individual can be confusing and taxing. Our Style and Image Professionals use their extensive knowledge and taste to help you develop a style of your own to fit your budget and personality. After this session your image will be transformed into a perfect expression of your growing confidence level.
Making An Emotional Connection
Attraction is the spark that starts the fire of Rapport. But if you don’t know how to make an emotional connection, the fire will die out quickly. In this lesson you’ll be taught by rapport experts to have the power to make a deep connection with anyone. After this class you’ll have the power to make the choice of whether or not you want to connect with someone and you’ll never be a victim of circumstance again.
Storytelling
One of the most attractive qualities of a leader is the ability to ‘hold court’ or hold everyone’s attention during conversation. Using the secrets of creating tension, urgency, and importance that you’ll learn in this class, you’ll have the ability to hold the floor when speaking about any topic.
How To Get The Truth Out Of Anyone
Have you ever gotten the feeling that someone was lying to you but you had no proof? With the information you’ll learn in this class you’ll be able to read the ‘eye accessing cues’ and facial expression of anyone to see their true motives and tap into their inner emotions.
Keeping Her Interested Before, During, And After The Date
Dates can be awkward and forced if not approached properly. It is your first chance to give an accurate impression of yourself and your qualities. From the moment you meet someone to after the date is over, your understanding of the rules and dynamics of dating will decide your success or failure. In this class you’ll learn exactly how to get the phone number, keep interest, create a great impression, and follow up perfectly.
The Art Of Seduction
The misunderstood subject of seduction has been theorized upon for ages. The power to turn someone on at will is a very appealing desire and adds a significant boost to your confidence, once mastered. In this class you’ll learn why seduction works along with many techniques and an in depth how-to that runs you step by step through the ups and downs of seduction and seduction ethics. After this class your ability to become sexual at the proper time will improve drastically and continue to improve as you put the techniques we teach to use.
Understanding Neurolingustic Programming (NLP) And Subliminal Messaging
Neurolinguistic Programming and Subliminal Messaging have been presented as a sort of ‘super power’ by many, but follow simple rules of psychology when properly understood. When we have mundane tasks that we do everyday we put them onto our ‘autopilot’ so we don’t have to consciously think about them on a constant basis. Neurolinguistic Programming (or NLP for short) is simply a means of using words to rearrange and even create new ‘autopilot responses’. In this class you learn the basics of these concepts as well as a few tips on how to use them during everyday life with a focus on your dating life. After this class you will know how to bring someone into a slight ‘trance’ during everyday activities and lead them to the conclusions that you’d prefer. You’ll also learn the serious consequences of using this technique for selfish gain.
How To Gain Power Using Compliance
Have you ever been with a girl you’ve just met and all of a sudden you find yourself paying for both of your dinners out of pocket for no apparent reason? You’ve most likely become a victim on Compliance. Compliance is a very real component of Psychology and Social Influence and is used in business, relationships, and even advertisements. Compliance is the play of convincing someone to unconsciously help you or go out of their way to cater to you in some small way and ‘escalating’ it to larger favors. Through this class you’ll learn how to use compliance to work for you instead of against you and, more importantly, you’ll learn to recognize when others attempt to make you comply.
The 7 Rules Of Long Term Attraction
Our Instructors at The Art Of Charm believe that you only fail if you don’t learn from your past mistakes. Knowledge is the only thing that will prevent us from repeating our same mistakes. If you’ve ever wondered why a relationship went sour or why you are attracted to certain types of people, this class will change your life. During this lesson, your Instructors will describe in detail the Seven Rules of Long Term Attraction which will allow you to understand which types of attraction will lead to certain problems. After this class you will be able to prevent long term, relationship-shattering complications and mature your attraction to seek out the type of relationship you want.
The Alchemy Of Love
Ever wonder what makes up love, how to recognize Hopeless Romanticism, Superficial Love, and Obsession? Having an awareness of the positive and negative sides to every situation, especially relationships, will give you the ability to make clear-headed decisions that aren’t clouded by emotions. This class will teach you how to see the realistic side of love and to recognize ‘true love’ from several different masked versions of infatuation.
Rules For Social Dynamics
Having a core group of close friends will boost your learning curve to understanding Social Dynamics. But there are rules for your social group. In this class you’ll learn to be a good leader as well as a good follower in your social circle. You’ll control the success and energy of your entire group and become the leader that everyone happily follows. These rules guide you to assist your friends during interactions as well as play ‘social chess’ to use the interactions of those around you to work in your favor.
In-Field Curriculum
The Themed In-Field Curriculum is selectively designed to attack certain insecurities and remove them through practice in social interaction. Your Instructors will coach and demonstrate different in-class lessons as well as walk you through the more difficult learning experiences. The effectiveness of the In-Field sessions relies heavily upon it’s obscurity from the students so you will have to wait to find out which Themed Field Class you will receive. Just think of it as a cliff hanger to the next episode of changing your life forever.
- In Field Assessment
- Getting Over Your Insecurities
- Bar and Club Field Work
- Mastering Everyday Social Interaction Field Work
- Exercising High Value
- An Exercise In Anxiety Free Introductions
- Using The Help Of A Woman In Field
- Making Approaching A Game
- An Exercise in Relieving Social Pressure
- Getting Over The Fear Of Showing Interest
- Professionally Evaluated ‘Date’ With A Female Coach
- Learning To Say Anything In A Conversation
Leading Up to Your Program
Below is a game plan of recommended materials for you to review prior to your program. Review as much of this list as possible, however if you do not get to everything on this list do not worry. These materials will help you be better prepared for the program, but are not a necessity to understand what we will be covering. We do however recommend reviewing all of these materials at some point whether before or after your program. All of these materials are available in our online store. Click title for more information.
Reading Material
- Zen Flesh Zen Bones: A Collection of Zen and Pre-zen Writings
by Paul Reps and Nyogen Senzaki - The Modern Gentleman: A Guide to Essential Manners, Savvy & Vice
by Phineas Mollod and Jason Tesauro - Blink: The Power of Thinking without Thinking
by Malcolm Gladwell - My Secret Garden
by Nancy Friday
Viewing Material
Missions
Honest Interactions
Go out for the next week and engage in a completely honest interaction. Refrain from lying AT ALL. If you catch yourself lying, even the tiniest little harmless lie, call yourself out and tell the person that you were talking to that you were lying. The benefits of having completely honest interactions will prepare you for your journey to train at The Art of Charm.
Mayor Walking
Walk into a bar and introduce yourself to EVERYONE in the bar. Simply say, "Hello, my name is ________ and I just wanted to introduce myself. I'll see you in a bit." The fearlessness you'll gain by practicing this assignment will give you a boost in beginning your training at The Art of Charm at an advanced level.
Tax Deduction of Expenses
An income tax deduction is allowed for expenses of education (including registration fees, travel, meals and lodging) when you improve your professional skills. (Treas.Reg.1.162-5 Coughlin v Commissioner 203 F2d 307)
